Why fret?

Well! Have my sons changes their behaviours? Nope not yet. Today they still did not make it to school. They actually slept all the whole morning and only woke up at 12pm. I am absolutely clueless what is wrong with them.

The only difference is I did not flare up and blew my top. Maybe I should show support to them of boycotting school and they will feel insecure that mum is not pushing them to go school?

Let they figure it out themselves what is good for them. I will continue to give positive reinforcements to the girls who have been really cooperative and they will see what they have been missing lo.

Nope! I am going to see how things work out for them and not urging them to go school. The ball is now in their court and I have no control whether they wanna serve the ball.

God bless my sons!

After watching happy feet

Happy feet- the story about a penguin who is not like the norm. The show touches my heart as my sons are like that. They have other talents but what they have in people's eyes are ridiculous. I must remind myself to be more supportive rather than condemning them so much. They will be able to shine and contribute in their own ways somehow. Who knows they might be so successful in future that someone might ask them who had helped in moulding them?? I love my sons and really I should support rather than criticise and hurting their tender feelings.

Every child is different and everyone is gifted. Went to Joe's Auntie's funeral wake and chit chat with the cousins. Do we dare to stand up and acknowledge that we have been fantastic parents?

Learning to be parents and I think having faith in your own offsprings and giving them love and self worth as individuals are the most important of all.

My sons may appear clumsy/lousy because I have been doing that - blacken their names and character. I am going to keep reminding myself I have happy feet sons :>