Boys Woes

Today I woke up with a nasty headache. After taking panadol at 7 plus I went back trying to get some sleep. However, the boys woke up at about 8am and started making a lot of noise. Our neighbours have informed us that she has to work and she only wakes up at 9am and hope the children can keep their volume down. The boys simply ignored our warnings time and again. Maybe to ask neighbour to give them a scolding so that they will be afraid. IF not the best solution is to send one back to Singapore and just bring the other boy over. My mother in law or my mother can take care of the child. Sometimes I think sending the boys to boarding school is a good solution. They have to learn to take care of themselves and grow up quickly.

My headache did not go away and I ended taking the doctor's headache presciption. However, seems like it's still there- barely under control. Tried asking boys to be more considerate while I rest but they still so noisy. Frankly speaking if anyone can tell me that I dislike my sons. My answer is yes and I hope that they are not my responsibilities. I have been trying to talk some sense in them but they are just so hopeless. Playing and being stubborn all the time. Who can help to tame them??? I simply don't like boys - even when I was teaching I find boys irritating and stupidly naive. They will only become more mature at teenager years???

How to bring up boys?? For those who have girls only do count your blessings that you have no playful boys to handle everyday. The Chinese beliefs of having boys to continue the family line/ name is outdated. Who cares what happens ten twenty years down the roads. Nobody knows what tomorrow holds for each and everyone of us.