My twin sons are like vampire - sucking my blood dry. Really do not know what is wrong with them. They have been skipping school since Monday. Yesterday they went and today again stayed at home.
They give loads of excuses and refused to change into their uniform. Hate thei, hate that, everything is people's fault. They are the victims. We as paretns are not like that why is it we have sons who are like that??????
Many friends and my relatives had said that I have not done enough to help them. Really need to keep everything to myself and not tell others. They simply will not understand what I have gone through.
Actually I feel really sad and blue whenever they do not behave like normal kids. Why is it the girls are able to thrive under my guidance but the boys simply are going the opposite direction? Told Joe they hate the Singapore system so we need to send them back to Australia or enrol them to international schools. this school refusal thing is destroying my relationship with them as well as my self confidence as an able adult. I must confess I sometimes have negative thoughts so often that I had to keep telling myself to go on. Who knows there might be news either twins kill by mum or mum committing suicide on inability to cope with life???
I really see no need to continue to suffer their abuse really. The school has not been helpful. Asking for a Letter of referral is like forever. somehow I am going to send them to child guidance clinic for treatment. Hopefully the professionals will be able to help in getting them to listen.
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