Time waits for no man

Time waits for no man. When I was young, I wanted to grow up quickly and do all the things I wanna do when I can control my own life.

Now that I am considered an adult and have many more means than teenage years, I am feeling less in control. No control over what to expect, my health, my family and our loved ones. When one is young, we tend to think we are superhuman, we have the courage and energy to go on and on.

Now that we have more responsibilities and financial means, we tend to think too much and what consequences we have for our actions. Life is no longer simple and carefree.

Mum told brother she does not understand my style of parenting. well! Tell me about it, I also do not understand as well. Do not like violence and definitely taking a humanistic approach. I do believe everyone can change. Not bowing to authority but wanting to change for the better for themselves. I am defintely not a strict parent. I believe in negotiation and some basic rules whereby you do not cause harm to others.

Anyway time waits for no man. Children will grow up so fast they leave u in a wink. Parents will leave you when you do not take note. What we have is present, what is important is the now.

Gonna make time for loved ones more. Listen and be heard. My most impt task in life now is my loved ones. Be truthful and I am glad I am blessed with Joe's support I can be a tai tai!